. . .well, what started out as fear, is turning more into determination. Ryan here didn't want anything to do with the water. . .but we've been to the pool about 5 times, now and he's in! He isn't swimming all around and diving, but he isn't afraid, and he is having FUN. That's what this childhood thing is all about. . .learning and having fun. I suppose it is our job as parents to teach them, and to offer opportunities to learn and have fun. yeah - no pressure there. . .